Circus Show Day 184

My Dad once told me that not matter what he would always love me and he would always be there for me supporting me through anything as long as I didn’t lie or hurt anyone.  But if I lied and if my actions had the intent of hurting someone then he would still love me but he wouldn’t support me.

Looking back over my adult life I believe I have carried the approach my Dad had with me into my own personal life and relationships.  I try my hardest to be the friend that will be by your side no matter what.  I might not always agree with your actions or decisions but I will support you and I will be there no questions asked to pick up the pieces if needed.  I believe it is your life to live and nobody knows what it is like to walk in your shoes.  My job as a friend is to be your support through thick and thin, ups and downs.

However, this hasn’t always worked out in return for me.  Especially over the past eight months I have learnt a lot about relationships.  I have learnt that I can’t be as open or honest as I would like to be with all my friends.  Some friends can deal with an honest answer when they ask “how are you?” but others need you to put on a smile and say “yeah good”.

So reflecting back on what my Dad once told me I think some people around me probably still love me as a friend, but they don’t know how to support me through this.  Or they need to see me progress and get better, my roller coaster journey might just be a bit too much to handle.  And I understand.

Being ill is my burden to carry.  And I am carrying it the best I can.

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