That’s it, game over, we lost the race against time. It is official my kidneys won’t bounce back. They are not going to make a great come back. They are not going to be the main attraction at the circus, they are not going to be the death defying act that draws crowds from all over the globe.
They are dead.
I am sad, I am devastated.
All hope has gone.
I have been trying to mentally prepare myself for this. I have been telling people that I would need dialysis and a transplant, but the truth was I was still holding onto hope that my kidneys would kick start themselves back to life. That they would start working again and I could be me again, I could just go back to my life, I could go back to work, I could be normal. Now I am stuck in this circus. Stuck on the merry-go-round of hospitals, needles, surgery and dialysis. I don’t like the merry-go-round. I want to get off, I want to go home and never come back to the circus! I hate clowns.
There is no why. There is no definite disease. Is it something that I have done? Could I have lived differently? Should I have gone to the doctors earlier – HELP ME
There is no help. There is no knight in shining armour that can sweep me off my feet and take me to a far off land and live happily ever after. My life is now a circus.
I am scared, scared of what is to come, scared of my new life, I am scared of clowns who paint on fake faces. Who am I now? Who will I be? Fee is gone, who is this new person in her place? What act does she do in the circus? Can she act? Is she strong? Is she weak? Can she deal with this pain and hurt that now engulfs her.
It hurts, it hurts so deep down it is like a low growl in the pit of my stomach. The growl is waiting to explode into a roar. A roar of pure pain and emotion.
I’m tired. I’m exhausted. I have no fight left in me. I gave it everything I had. I followed instructions. I took the pills, I learnt the circus tricks. I joined the circus. But they wanted more. The crowds wanted more. Now they have all gone home. The tent is empty, it is quiet. It is sad and lonely in the big tent.
I need to now learn new tricks. I need to pick up my sore battered body and change costumes. I need to become a new act. It is going to take time to be able to move from the bottom of the ring to the trapeze. To fly again – will I ever fly again?